Michael moved into a small apartment on the north side of town. It’s a studio. He drives a used Honda now.
He works at the firm still, but he picked up a weekend job doing landscaping to pay off his debts.
I see him on Sundays. He comes over for dinner.
Last Sunday, I made the turkey with the sage and chorizo stuffing. It wasn’t Christmas, but it felt right.
We sat at the table, just the two of us.
“This is good,” Michael said, taking a bite. “Really good. Better than Mom’s?”
“Don’t let her hear you say that,” I smiled, looking up at the ceiling.
“Dad,” Michael said, putting down his fork. “I’m sorry. For everything. For the ‘peasant’ comment. For letting her treat you that way.”
“I know,” I said.
“I’m paying you back,” he said. “It’ll take me twenty years, but I’m keeping a ledger. Every cent.”
“You don’t have to do that.”
“I do,” he said firmly. “For me. I need to know that I can stand on my own feet.”
I looked at my son. He was wearing work boots. His hands were rougher than they used to be. He looked tired, but he looked real. He looked like a man.
“Okay,” I said. “But interest-free.”
“Deal.”
Spring has come to Spokane. The snow is melting on the South Hill. The flowers are pushing up through the mud.
I still have my house. I still have my truck. And for the first time in a long time, I have my son. Not the version of him that needed my money, but the version of him that needs his father.
Family isn’t blood. It isn’t obligation. It’s who stays when the checkbook closes.
And I was finally done paying for seats in a show where I wasn’t allowed on stage. Now, we were just sitting on the porch, watching the sunset, and that was worth more than any mansion on the hill.
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